Ever been in a situation where you want to say something to someone but cant because you don’t want to make your spouse look bad? That’s literally me ALL THE TIME. I tend to speak before I think and I’m so terrified that doing so will get my husband in trouble lol.
So, I work on base, not going to say where, but I am the type of person who sees everyone as an individual person, I don’t see Military members for their rank, I see them for the person they are. Well, we used to have one SNCO who would come in and be SOOO rude and basically use his rank to get his way. I swear when he would come in, it would take everything in my power not to look him straight in the eye and ask who he really thinks he is…like HELLO, i’m not enlisted, your rank means nothing to me. I was however, always nice to him and had at times asked him to please settle down and that he would be helped in a timely manner…But, again, it comes down to me saying something out the way to this person and whether or not it gets back to my husbands chain of command that his wife is CRAZY.
What would you do? How would you handle this situation?
