Day: August 23, 2018

I commented on a post from Facebook yesterday where a female mentioned that her husband told her that he no longer wanted to be married and that he only married her for the benefits. There were a ton of comments of people offering her suggestions on what to do, most of them were to divorce him and not look back. My first thought was, what is going on that her husband would do and say those to her. Is there an underlying issue that we are not aware of.

I replied to the post and simple suggested that she contact her husband 1st SSgt and see what he suggests. I got so much back lash from suggesting that. My thoughts were, what if this is a cry for help. What if him leaving his wife is a way to get away from everything. What if he has a mental issue that needs addressed. I feel like him talking to his shirt could possibly bring out the issues that they are facing. Dont get me wrong, he could just want a divorce because he’s a jerk but I feel like a there may be some issues there. It could be that they as a couple need some counseling. The 1st shirt could point them in the right direction of where to go next.

My point is, don’t be so rash to run and get an attorney and just file paperwork and BAM its over. Try to work it out. You might be surprised with the outcome!!!

If you or someone you know needs help with Suicidal Thoughts or actions get help!!! The resources are out there.